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tyty
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Dear jesleong,
If that guy did not confess yet, perhaps he wanted to be close friends with you first & from there he will see whether both of you can be a couple..Actually there is no harm to know more friends but must make sure you dont give a wrong signal to the guy if you really dont like him..Some guys are a bit shy when comes to the matter of heart..Some of my friends are even afraid of rejection that they will rather keep it in the heart..What do you think? To confess or not to confess?  |
If that guy is the guy that I like then I am sure I want him to confess to me.. but if someone who I prefer to stay as friend then I think it will better for that person not to confess to me.. as later the situation will be hard for both of us.
Of course, I will be happy to be friend with him and other friends but... sometimes his actions scare me...  |
Well, if you really feel "scared" perhaps you can hint to him or tell it in a joking manner that his actions actually makes you scared or unconfortable..hopefully by this way he will understand..it is better to have an understanding friend rather than a friend who always give you "scary"surprises..right? want to try to work it out?  |
Haha, I did give some hints but I think he dont get the hints.. anyway, I think somehow he thinks that I am busy so he hardly call me anymore.most of the time only sms me. but once if I online then he sure will bug me.. 
I love to be friend with him but if move forward then should be no... |
At least you know clearly what you want..this is a good thing..yeah..agree that certain people can only be friends..nothing more than that..
Since he seldom disturb you now..i think he probably got your hints..so dont worry.. It is good to have more friends around.. |
Yup ,i love to be friends with many people because we can learn a lot from different people characteristic. No matter that person is good or bad, we still learn something from them. Do you agree? |
Friends really can influence a person's behaviour..If a person joined a wrong clique, probably he/she will be learning all bad habits..but if he/she has good friends around, that certainly help him/her to behave well.. |
But how are we suppose to determine whether this person is good to be friend and this is a bad person?
Are we suppose to feel it by our heart? Making a wrong decision will leads to bigger mistakes in future. This seems a serious matter. |
Actually by observing a person's behaviour, you can easily tell whether he/she is a good or bad person..certain people really can act & pretend that they are miss or mr goody..but time will tell..we also should be careful when choosing friends..dont believe others too easily..until you are certain that he/she is a good person..a bit tough, right? |
Yup, I agree that time will tell. That person cannot be forever pretending to be good person. They will show their true colors one day.It just the matter of time. Sometimes, I really hate those kind of person because they are so good in acting and cheating their friends feelings.. really anti them.  |
I dont like such friends..If I have such friends, I will choose to shy away from them..because I myself really cannot act like them..so the better way would be just ignore them.. |
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jesleong
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I agree with you and I will do the same as well.
Those are not my friends. To have a friendship, we need to be sincere to them. Another thing that I dont like is those people who likes to backstabbing people. I really hope to have more good friends. |
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